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Sep 27, 2019

Today we welcome Rory Kilmartin, who’s body of work on ‘Relational Power Dynamics’ has been changing people’s lives for over a decade. This November his “Balance of Power Breakthrough Weekend” comes to London, for a three-day workshop, offering attendees the chance to understand how to drastically reduce the amount of fighting, arguments and breakdowns they have, with the people they care about the most. This reduction in frequency, intensity and duration, has been recorded to be up to 90%. In this thought-provoking episode, we discuss the event’s content, including the four basic survival archetypes, how we’re attracted the missing pieces of ourselves, and when a sheep should become a Gorilla.

00:38 A recap on Ed from Hire Space

01:38 A review of Variant 31 – the worlds largest live action immersive experience

05:00 When are you ready to launch an immersive experience

06:00 All Star Lanes

07:30 This week’s guest

08:45 Rory joins us on the show, starting with his background as a relationship researcher

10:20 The mystery of being more understanding with a friend than a partner

11:06 Models of relationships

12:45 The primary games of the human experience – Health, money and relationships

14:30 Power Dynamics and “giving your power away”

16:00 Putting your partner on a pedestal, an ingredient of imbalance

17:00 What Rory will be teaching at the Balance of Power

18:30 The four basic survival archetypes – The Sheep, Wolf, Fox and Gorilla

20:00 Being attracted to someone with our missing piece

25:10 When two Wolves collide

30:15 The benefit of attending the Balance of Power Breakthrough Weekend

32:55 There is no Shangri-La, becoming more skilled at handling breakdowns

37:20 Who is Rory trying to attract to the event

40:37 Date of the event November 08th 09th and 10th 

42:45 London – the best city in the World

44:50 Book recommendations

47:32 King, Warrior, Magician, Lover

51:14 Where to find Rory on Social Media

52:00 A recap on the conversation and which animal are we?

54:54 Can love be a currency

55:27 This weekend in London

56:34 Thanks for this week and Social Media for Shout About

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Hire Space

Backyard Cinema

Peter Sage

Nick Bell

Ambassador Hotel Upper Woburn Place

Will Power – by Baumeister and Tierney

James Hollis

King Warrior Magician Lover – by Robert Moore, Douglas Gillette

Doggo Style

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